Fellatio Oral Sex

During fellatio oral sex, while my partner's head is at penis level, what am I supposed to do with my hands? I cannot reach her erogenous zones ...

Fellatio is oral sex performed on a man and a great way to give pleasure regardless if it is for foreplay or the main event.

Finding an agreeable position for fellatio is usually not a difficult task. Both the man receiving fellatio and the person performing fellatio need to be comfortable. For deep throating, it is wiser to choose a position where the angle of the penis and the angle of your throat are somewhat aligned.

All sexual play is a matter of giving and taking, but in a good relationship pleasure should be derived from both. If your girlfriend or wife is performing fellatio and is at the bottom of the bed while you lie back against the pillows at the top end, you are doing all the receiving and she all the giving.

There are a few basic rules in any stage of lovemaking. One is that every opportunity of touching and physical contact between the two lovers must be exploited and enjoyed. Your partner’s spare hand, if she is experienced and not inhibited, will be stroking some other part of your anatomy. It is important that she doesn’t handle your penis like a dirty dish rag between her finger and thumb. Likewise, you should endeavour to make physical contact with her. Your partner’s more obvious erogenous zones will be out of reach, but not her shoulders, neck and scalp. Most, but not all, women find that having these areas stroked is sensually pleasing, even mildly sexually stimulating.

The other way of performing fellatio is in some variant or another of the 69 position, head to tail. This can be either lying side by side or, more unusually, with the man or woman lying above his, or her, partner.
In this situation, both partners are giving and receiving pleasure at the same time.

Just remember: relax, enjoy and cherish each other!

The romantic surprise of sensual cards, the anticipation of a sensual encounter, the thrill of receiving and giving true tokens of love - adds up to truly memorable moments to be cherished and fondly remembered. Don't wait - surprise your sweetheart today!